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3 Law of Attraction Myths That Are Killing Your Progress

Updated: Nov 3

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Let’s talk about something that gets a lot of buzz, the Law of Attraction. Maybe you saw "The Secret" or read a book that said if you just "think positive," the Universe will deliver everything you've ever wanted. Sounds amazing, right? But here’s the truth: there are a few myths floating around that might be secretly blocking your progress. 


If you feel like you've been trying to manifest and it's just not working, these common misconceptions might be the reason. Let’s clear them up so you can actually start attracting what you want with more ease and alignment. 


Myth #1: The Law of Attraction Only Works for Certain People 

This is one of the biggest blocks I see. You make the vision board. You say the affirmations. But nothing happens. Cue frustration and the belief that, "Maybe it just doesn’t work for me."


Here’s what might really be going on: 

  • You're not clear. 

    Vague desires create vague results. "I want more money" isn’t the same as, "I want to earn an extra $10,000 this year through aligned work." 

  • You're gripping too tight. 

    Desperation pushes your desires further away. When you're trying to manifest from a place of need or fear, you're often tuned into lack rather than abundance. 

  • You're focused on the problem

    . If your desire is a new house, but you’re obsessing over what you hate about your current one, your energy is rooted in frustration, not creation. Manifestation requires clarity, alignment, and trust. It's available to everyone. 


Myth #2: Positive Thinking Alone Will Bring You What You Want

Yes, mindset matters. But manifestation isn’t just about slapping a smile on your face and waiting for magic to fall from the sky. It’s about aligning your beliefs, emotions, and actions.


Try this instead: 

  • Write it down. Get clear about what you want and why. 

  • Visualize it. Engage your senses and imagine it as already done. 

  • Feel it. Embody the emotion of having it now. 

  • Act on it. Take inspired steps that align with your vision. 

  • Be grateful. Gratitude signals trust and readiness. 


Also… don’t ignore the doubt. If negative thoughts come up, get curious. Ask yourself, "What belief is behind this?" and start shifting it. 


Myth #3: You Have to Control Every Thought to Manifest 

Let’s be real. You're human. You’re going to have off days. You’re going to have doubts. And you’re definitely going to think negative thoughts sometimes. The key is not to control every thought, it’s to notice them and choose again. 

Some tools that help:


Declarations. Choose statements that feel true to you ("I'm open to receiving abundance." is a great place to start.) 

  • Visualization: Spend a few minutes each day seeing your dream as already real. 

  • Gratitude: The fastest way to shift your vibe. Gratitude grounds you in the energy of already having. 


Manifestation isn’t about perfection. It’s about alignment. 


Final Thoughts 

The Law of Attraction isn’t magic. It’s mindset, emotion, and energy in action. When you release the myths and focus on clarity, alignment, and belief, things start to shift. You are a powerful creator. Your thoughts shape your reality, but so do your feelings, your actions, and your willingness to trust.

 

So if you’ve felt stuck, try this: get clear, take a deep breath, and realign with what you truly want. Then, allow it in. Because the Universe?

It’s always listening. Want to go deeper into manifesting with ease and intention? Let’s work together on turning your vision into reality.


 
 
 

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